Skip to main content

The Manual may earn a commission when you buy through links on our site.

Style Skills: How to Pair a Tie with the Correct Collar

The resurgence of neck-wear for men has our fathers very confused. They spent years yanking off those office nooses as soon as the clock struck 5:00, proudly unbuttoning their shirts for all the world to see their Tom Selleck glory. We guess that could be the reason why guys have been going back to the buttoned up look for the past several seasons. Yet knowing how to tie a perfect a bow tie or a Windsor knot isn’t the only style step one needs to know.

Nowadays, ties and collars come in a wide-variety of shapes and sizes, which can sometimes make it difficult to know how best to pair them. With so many different dress shirt collars, tie lengths, and lapel widths, putting together the perfect ensemble can be a challenge, but it should never be a chore.

tie chart
The nine basic types of men’s shirt collars. Image used with permission by copyright holder

For some strategies on how to put your best tie forward, check out our guide below.

Recommended Videos

Proportions

Generally, wide ties pair best with wide lapels and narrow ties pair best with narrow lapels.  Nothing is more jarring than seeing a jacket with narrow lapels paired with a wide tie or a narrow tie paired with wide lapels.

Collars/Knots For Ties

  • Extremely wide spread collars look best with fuller knots i.e. full Windsor/double Windsor. Generally, extremely wide spread collars can overpower a narrower tie.
  • Please refrain from using full/double Windsor knots with smaller collars or traditional straight collars.
  • If you are keen on wearing narrow ties, club collars, straight collars, traditional spread and tab collars work best.
  • Bow ties generally look best with traditional spread collars.
how to tie a tie
Photo Courtesy of Andrew Worley/Unsplash Image used with permission by copyright holder

Mixing Patterns

  • Bold, large scale patterns or club patterns on ties pair best with solid shirts or small, neatly patterned shirts.
  • Plaid or multi-colored gingham shirts pair best with ties that are solid, patterned with pin dots, minimal stripes etc…the key here is not getting too busy.
  • Again, when pairing with a suit or sport coat, if you are wearing a large scale plaid or check jacket, pair that with a solid shirt. If you are wearing a large scale or colorful dress shirt, keep your jacket solid or with minimal pinstripes.

Wear What Makes You Feel Confident

The above are simple guidelines and can hopefully encourage men to try new things.  The most important thing is feeling great and confident in what you are wearing… if you do, you are probably doing it right.

Now that you’re equipped with the know-how, take a peek at some of our favorite ties of the summer.

Valentino – $190

Image used with permission by copyright holder

Dunhill – $68

Image used with permission by copyright holder

The Tie Bar – $19

Image used with permission by copyright holder

J. Crew – $45

Image used with permission by copyright holder
Cator Sparks
Former Former Digital Trends Contributor, The Manual
Cator Sparks was the Editor-in-Chief of The Manual from its launch in 2012 until 2018. Previously, Cator was covering…
Topics
Ulysse Nardin’s new Freak X Crystalium is a transparent marvel
The Ulysse Nardin Freak X Crystalium is a transparent marvel
FREAK X CRYSTALIUM

Ulysse Nardin has consistently carved a path of unparalleled innovation in the world of haute horology and with the introduction of the Freak X Crystalium, the watchmaker continues to push the boundaries of skeletal design to their absolute limits. Debuting at Geneva Watch Days 2025, this latest iteration of the iconic Freak collection is a mesmerizing spectacle of transparency and light, showcasing the mechanical soul of the watch that stands as a testament to Ulysse Nardin's fearless philosophy. The transformation of a watch into a wearable timepiece that captures and refracts light is the stuff of a legend in the making. 

A case of captured light and architectural brilliance

Read more
Patrick Mahomes joins Hublot as their newest brand ambassador
Patrick Mahomes becomes the newest face of Hublot watches
PATRICK MAHOMES + HUBLOT

Hublot has made a science out of brand ambassadorships, and the Swiss manufacturer – renowned for its audacious 'Art of Fusion' philosophy – has recently announced Patrick Mahomes, the superstar quarterback for the Kansas City Chiefs, as its latest brand ambassador. This strategic partnership is a celebration of unrivaled excellence proving that impossible is nothing. Mahomes, with his already legendary clutch-time excellence, embodies the very spirit of Hublot — a brand that has consistently challenged conventions and revolutionized an industry in the process. 

A winning combination of sporting genius and dynamic artistry 

Read more
Luxury meets utility in Aimé Leon Dore’s Italian-made Derby Hiker launch
Aimé Leon Dore revamps its lineup with a luxury hiker boot
piles of Aimé Leon Dore hiker boots

Although Aimé Leon Dore surely knows what it means to create luxury, the brand can now add rugged shoes to its lineup. In its newest addition to the Fall/Winter 2025 collection, Aimé Leon Dore is adding a new outdoor option that blends its established craftsmanship with an active and rugged silhouette. Coming in three distinct colorways, Aimé Leon Dore’s new Derby Hiker launch widens the brand’s offerings and does so with plenty of luxury. While established as an outdoor shoe, the Derby Hiker is the ideal blend of active performance with style that allows it to be versatile enough for the trails and the city streets. With an option between suede and leather uppers, these hikers are far from your typical hiker boots. 

Aimé Leon Dore’s Derby Hiker brings luxury to the trails

Read more